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My sunshine

21 Friday Mar 2014

Posted by Victory Chest in Road to victory

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children, good days, Gratitude, inspiration, love, sunshine

My daughters are truly my sunshine.  They brighten my day, they do not allow me to stay in bed defeated. They are full of energy and love. They show affection, they have passion, they are demanding, they can be fussy and they know exactly what they want. To me, they are perfect, to their Dad they were beyond perfect. I am so grateful for their love.

I chose to start today happy and to be grateful for these girls and the amazing legacy of David that they are. Here are some of the things they have said in the past that continues to warm my heart.

“I love you more than you think I can”

“You are my Mom, you are my Dad, you are part of my Dad and I love you for who you are. I know nobody told you that before”

“Mommy, l kiss your boo boo (then kissed my chest), no more boo boo ok”

David lives on in them and they are my strength and inspiration. They keep the house alive and full of energy.

Thank you, thank you

02 Sunday Mar 2014

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Gratitude, love, Thank you

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Where do I begin?

Thank you for everything. Your love and support has been extensive.

The cards, the groceries, the flowers, fruit baskets, cookies, cupcakes, more sweet treats, stuffed animals, monetary gifts . The gift of time – visits, phone calls, text messages, emails, homemade meals, plowing snow to name a few.

Reading the cards brought hope to me and feeling of gratitude that people were thinking about us and sympathetic to our grief. The flowers and the plants brighten the house. The fruit baskets, brownies, chocolate, cookies, cupcakes and other sweet treat became a balanced diet for us – one note stated “lets sugar up the kids” it worked, they ran around the house filled with energy. The homemade meals warmed my heart and provided much needed nutritious calories.

For those that attended the funeral, thank you for making the trip. Many traveled hundreds of miles, others thousands of miles, left your young children at home, found tickets at the last minute and in many cases paid exorbitantly. We were surrounded by your love and this made the day easier.

Thank you to everyone that is reading the blog, this is my therapy. It is my outlet, it allows me to feel connected with David.

Below is a picture of a dear friend of the family, Richard who flew in to offer condolences plowing snow in his suit and dress pants.

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My David, my love

14 Friday Feb 2014

Posted by Victory Chest in David, Road to victory

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David, love, valentine day

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David, you showed me such deep love, one that seemed reserved for fairy tales. You also let me know the importance of expressing love. Your love came without constraints. Your love was endless, it came simply and naturally, and you expressed it daily.

You believed that people should not wait for valentine’s day to show appreciation to their loved ones. However, this did not stop you from celebrating the day in its true tradition. You got sweet mushy cards, paid the inflated prices for flowers, bought chocolates and/or gifts etc.

It was hard for valentine’s day to feel more special than most days, expression and appreciation of love was something you did regularly. Today, I do not feel a void because it is valentine’s day, there are endless cards from you to smile and cry over. I feel a void because I miss the love of my life.

Love always,

XOXOXO

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